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Avoid the Biggest Mistake You Can Make in Divorce

I have an incredible claim to make. After watching friends, self, relatives, etc. suffer through litigated divorce processes I have distilled the most critical mistake that we all make in divorce. It is what leads us to wasting untolds amounts of money, to trashing our spouses, to hurting our children and to everything bad about NY divorce.

What is this nefarious thing? What is the incredible morsel of information that I am hiding from you?

It is understanding.

1. Understand the process. Don't get pissed off about a Request for Judicial Intervention, don't get pissed about an initial claim for full custody, don't get pissed because you have to fill out a statement of networth and don't get pissed when you have to respond to a discovery process. UNDERSTAND the process. If your spouses attorney is REQUIRED to get information in order to advise their client don't be pissed. If your spouse must say things because of the process don't get pissed. UNDERSTAND the process you are in and remember that all the people you are paying tons of cash to do this crap every day of their lives. They know the process. LEARN IT. Understand it and don't rush to judgment before understanding.

2. Understand that everyone is at their worst and cut people lack.

3. Understand you are at your worst.

4. Understand that your kids need your love and attention no matter how bad the court is f'ing you.

The more you understand the less mistakes you will make.