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What are you fighting about? Stop fighting and move on with your divorce.

What are you fighting about? How much time do you spend fighting about your partners impressions of your positions as opposed to your actual positions. Imagine this scenario -

Wife: I have a relative coming from out of town tonight and I would like the kids to stay here, can we switch your overnight this week?

Husband: You are denying my visitation?

Fight ensues

Example 2:

Husband: I am going to have a hard time making the complete payment for xyz this month and I will need to spread it out.

Wife: You are torturing me and never pay your fair share.

Fight Ensues

In both cases the responses did not accept or listen to the opening statements and the other party responds with a judgment having little to do with the pertinent issue. Fights and frustration ensue because the issues were not heard and all of the sudden you are arguing about impressions of positions and not addressing the real issues.

Address real issues and keep your impressions for your own thoughts. Challenge your impressions and try taking things at face value today.